“But if he’s so uncomfortable that he gets angry or shuts down or otherwise just can’t continue the conversation, that’s a big sign that he’s not ready for this.” If so, assure your child that there’s no hurry to start dating.
By high school, kids are more likely to develop serious romantic attachments.
Notice what "dating" seems to mean to your child and then talk about it.
As the horde of rush-hour cars streamed by, Bill reminisced about the teenage daughter he had just picked up from band practice.
He smiled as he thought about all those after-school trips over the last few years: dance classes, piano practices, the unending cycle of softball games and tournaments.
Are they confident and able to take care of themselves? Do they look physically more mature than they are, emotionally?
"A 12-year-old who looks 16 isn’t ready to date someone who is 16," Anthony says.Pay attention to how they respond when you start a conversation about dating.“Of course it will probably be uncomfortable for both of you,” Anthony says.You may not love the idea of your child beginning to date, but don't try to pretend it’s not happening."Parents can be so uncomfortable with the idea of their kid becoming more grown up -- we wish our kids could stay kids," Atkins says.But if you find your parents unwilling to accept your romantic partner, there are ways you can protect your privacy so you can date without interference from overbearing parents.