A few weeks later, she joined him for "a wonderful weekend" in his home state. (For men, the figure was 90 percent.) And should they be propositioned by someone they found attractive, 48 percent of the women (and 69 percent of the men) said they would be tempted to have sex outside the relationship.
Many older divorced or widowed men and women are in the same boat. You're probably not desperate enough to stalk your neighbors, or to go looking for friends with benefits in all the wrong places (bars come to mind).They feel protective of their privacy and peace of mind, but they haven't become eunuchs or hermits. But offered a chance to reconnect with someone from your past — dinner with your high school steady, for example — you might just surprise yourself by winding up in bed.En español | You made the mistake of asking your adult daughter if that guy she went out with last night was "anything serious." She gave you a nonchalant shrug and smiled."Don't book the church yet, Mom — it was just a hookup!Further evidence of Roving Eye Syndrome came from a study of sexuality in the United States commissioned by AARP in 2009: It found that 6 percent to 8 percent of singles age 50 and up were dating more than one person at a time.
The same study revealed 11 percent of survey respondents were in a sexual relationship that did not involve cohabitation.For 50-plus types unwilling to walk — possibly rewalk — the path that leads to romance, rings and relocation, the prospect of a "friend with benefits" is looking less and less like a millennial indulgence.After all, it gets awfully lonely waiting around for "the one." Perhaps you've decided that what you need at this point in your life is someone to talk to and laugh with — someone with whom you can share the sheets, but not the tax refund.On the other hand, relatively few Americans who are currently married or living with a partner have ever had experience with online or mobile dating tools; just 8% among this group say they have ever used dating sites or apps.But in contrast to the never-married, younger adults (those ages 18-34) who are married or living with a partner are more likely than their older counterparts (those 35 and older) to say they have used online dating (14% vs. Although Americans who are in a committed relationship were not asked how they met their partner in this current survey, a 2013 Pew Research Center survey found that only 5% of Americans who were currently married or in a committed relationship said they met their romantic partner online.That doesn't mean all casual lovers feel emotionally bereft in the wake of a purely physical rendezvous, mind you.