I’d be thrilled to hear your thoughts, since it will not only help me create better material for you, but also get to know you better.
After the 4th time I finally smartened up and focused on moving on.I’ve now been dating a really great guy for over 2.5 years. Which brings us to the results of the survey I did last week.I read the article "Where Mentoring Goes Wrong" by Sue Edwards and Barbara Neumann with interest.In it, they referenced the statistic that up to 80 percent of traditional mentoring relationships fail within the first six months.As a mentor, I've learned to ask four key questions before even agreeing to a mentoring relationship.
I've learned to be direct about expectations—Sherry Surratt is the Director of Parenting Strategy for Orange Family Ministry.
The phrase “finding a man who wants to be a grown-up” came up several times.
This response summarized the challenge nicely: “Meeting a man who I feel compatible with, feeling attracted to that same man AND having him treat me well.” This is what all the online dating methods call the phase.
"Too many husbands go to jail because the wife was angry and spilled the beans." Much too late, the woman comes to realize that the man can't pay alimony or child support if he's behind bars instead of working!
The same holds true for men trying to hurt or demean their wives.
By far, the biggest challenge the respondents encountered was meeting quality men.