Maybe his parents had a nasty divorce when he was a kid, maybe he just went through a nasty divorce himself, maybe he’s focused solely on work right now, maybe he has deeply rooted emotional issues that never got dealt with, maybe he’s been hurt one too many times before.
No matter what the issue, you can’t fix it for him. He can’t be your little pet project and you are not his therapist. You might think if you just stick it out and love him hard enough he’ll come around and change his mind. Every situation is different and it’s up to you to assess the situation and decide what the best move is.
Sometimes, it’s hard to let go of the self-image you created as part of a couple.
And you can feel like a break-up is not only severing the relationship but also dismantling your own image of who you are as a person.
when his behavior is actually perfectly normal or caused by something totally unrelated to his feelings for her.
The problem is that panicking can create a problem where there wasn’t one in the first place.
[Click here to keep reading…] An emotionally unavailable guy isn’t the same as an emotionally abusive guy.
He isn’t a bad guy, he doesn’t do things to intentionally hurt you.
The remarkably intact specimen was unearthed after 1,500 man-hours of digging.
Only parts of the skull, fin and tail bones are missing.
It’s a scary feeling when a guy you’re seeing seems to be pulling away.
You aren’t sure if he’s actually withdrawing or if your own insecurities are acting up and making you paranoid.
She thinks maybe his ex really did a number on him and now he’s all messed up and he needs her love in order to heal, and he’ll give her the commitment she wants. One of you sheepishly says: “So, anyway…” but you’re just kind of stuck and a painful silence lingers in the air. Even worse, they seem to happen more with people we just meet and more so with someone we want to make a good impression on. I’m giving you specific strategies you can use so that you never have to worry about running out of things to say on a date. Even in the most amicable situations, there is healing to do, whether you get back together in the end or not.