How can a father be engaged in fathering his children if he is locked in his office at home spending countless hours viewing porno sites on the internet?More than just viewing porn, these men are also masturbating. Why do otherwise good fathers and husbands engage in this self-isolating sexual behavior when they have a willing sexual partner available?
Children who were abused, targets of corporal punishment at the hands of parents, or who were otherwise mistreated gain joy out of pornography by identifying themselves with the sadist in these photos and movies.In other words, they become the masters and the women become the slaves.Some groups of boys even engage in ejaculation contests to test whose ejaculatory jet is the strongest and can reach the furthest.Some even engage in urinary contests to see whose urinary stream can reach the furthest.In addition to issues of performance for the male is the issue of genital size and appearance.
Beginning with adolescence it is common for boys to compare penis size with one another.
Some of these female writers report that they even view some internet porn along with their partner and feel especially angry that their partner will sneak away to view porn websites in isolation.
The comments express outrage, hurt, puzzlement, and confusion about what goes on with their men.
None of this is mean to imply that the men who watch pornography have these problems.
It does imply that many men fear that these things could happen.
For men, shame issues are directly related to sexual performance, and definitions of masculinity. There is just no pretending; He either ejaculates or he does not.